It's Your Decision
Are decisions regarding your life easy or hard to make? Find out why decision making is essential to living a happy and fulfilled lifestyle.
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It's Your Decision
How easy do you find it to make a decision for yourself?
Does it come easy or do you find that you need others to tell you what you should decide?
You may not realise how often you do ask others for their opinion. You only come to realise this when you start to take matters in your own hands and decide for yourself.
Trusting that the decision you make is right for you, can be difficult for many especially if you know you will be going 'against the grain' with others. This might hold you back and often leave you to rely on others instead to make the decisions for you or value their opinion over your own.
This weakens your position and the more you rely on others or allow others to influence your thinking, you begin tearing yourself down instead of building yourself up.
Also, if the decision relates to a change in your life, isn't it better to evaluate for yourself than through another persons eyes?
Others will always have opinions and there are certain people who love to tell people what to do and dictate to them. But remember you are unique. We all are. So what works for them and their life, might not be the same for you, no matter how similar you both are.
Confidence comes from making decisions on your own and walking to the beat of your own drum.
That's the beauty of life. We are all one but different in lifestyle. This is what makes life more fun and leads to new connections being made and new experiences to be had.
Remember, no one stays the same throughout life.
Who you are when you were 20, will not be the same as when you are in your 30s, 40s or 50s and this is a beautiful thing. We change and people change based on decisions they make for their life. Decisions that feel right for them and make them happy.
So if you are someone who is dependent on others to make decisions, stop it. You are only hindering yourself and the quality of your life.
Allow yourself to grow and change and experience the opportunities of life that are right for you.
Give yourself the permission to be you and not run by another.
If this resonates with you and you know that making your own decisions for your life is a difficulty for you, email me and lets book you in for a chat to see how I can help you move past this and to achieving the happiness and success you want in your life. feel free to email - info@ritahurry.com
Does it come easy or do you find that you need others to tell you what you should decide?
You may not realise how often you do ask others for their opinion. You only come to realise this when you start to take matters in your own hands and decide for yourself.
Trusting that the decision you make is right for you, can be difficult for many especially if you know you will be going 'against the grain' with others. This might hold you back and often leave you to rely on others instead to make the decisions for you or value their opinion over your own.
This weakens your position and the more you rely on others or allow others to influence your thinking, you begin tearing yourself down instead of building yourself up.
Also, if the decision relates to a change in your life, isn't it better to evaluate for yourself than through another persons eyes?
Others will always have opinions and there are certain people who love to tell people what to do and dictate to them. But remember you are unique. We all are. So what works for them and their life, might not be the same for you, no matter how similar you both are.
Confidence comes from making decisions on your own and walking to the beat of your own drum.
That's the beauty of life. We are all one but different in lifestyle. This is what makes life more fun and leads to new connections being made and new experiences to be had.
Remember, no one stays the same throughout life.
Who you are when you were 20, will not be the same as when you are in your 30s, 40s or 50s and this is a beautiful thing. We change and people change based on decisions they make for their life. Decisions that feel right for them and make them happy.
So if you are someone who is dependent on others to make decisions, stop it. You are only hindering yourself and the quality of your life.
Allow yourself to grow and change and experience the opportunities of life that are right for you.
Give yourself the permission to be you and not run by another.
If this resonates with you and you know that making your own decisions for your life is a difficulty for you, email me and lets book you in for a chat to see how I can help you move past this and to achieving the happiness and success you want in your life. feel free to email - info@ritahurry.com